Speed fellowshipping!
Looking for a fresh, joyful way to meet Adventists?
Speed Fellowshipping is designed for single, divorced, or widowed Adventists (ages 21+ in 4 groups) to connect one-on-one in a friendly and meaningful way without pressure!
Why You Should Try It!
- Meet like-minded Adventists in just one afternoon—each private conversation between men and women, lasts just 4-5 minutes, so you’ll mingle effortlessly.
- No-pressure vibes: Someone caught your interest but not sure how to find out if they caught yours too? No pressure - write their name on your 'Interest Card' afterwards and, if mutual, we'll connect you both via text!
- Structured fun: Icebreaker questions provided (or bring your own!).
- Option to Stay and unwind: Stick around after for vespers and snacks, drinks, and relaxed chats at our sundown mixer (open to all single Adventists - even if not part of event)
Event Details
📅 Date: Once we have 15 men and 15 women age-matched singles!
⏰ Time: 2:00 PM - 6:00 PM
📍 Location: Mountain View Central SDA Church, Mountain View, CA
👗 Attire: Dress to Impress!
About Speed Fellowshipping
Interesting Statistics for Speed Dating at Any Particular Event
25% of people have 0 matches;
50% will have 1-2 matches;
25% will have 3+ matches
Be Curious, Have Fun!
MORE About THE SPEED FELLOWSHIP EVENT...
How it Works
Arrive early— Registration starts on time. Late comers will not be admitted once event starts...to avoid disrupting the participants
Rotate and connect: Chat with each person of the opposite gender in your preferred age bracket in quick, lively 4-5 minute rounds.
Anyone you would like to get to know more? Indicate with 'YES', 'NO' or 'MAYBE' —we’ll reveal mutual matches later via text!
More Details on Itinerary and Event
✅Check in for men and women will be in different entrances. Once you arrive, you'll be given a name tag (name and city), & a form to fill out testifying to your status as a "Single, Divorced or Widowed - Baptized Adventist Christian looking for a serious relationship"
📝After the Rounds Conclude; if you would like to get to know someone further, you can submit your name, contact info, & the name of the person you would like to chat further with. Organizers will automatically connect you if the interest is mutual!
🪑 Ladies, you will be seated for the duration of the speed dating rounds. Gentlemen, you will be rotating table to table after each round.
⏳Each round will be about 4-5 minutes.
Rounds will conclude
Open Mixer to Follow with light snacks and beverages and vespers - open to ALL Single Adventists
Not Christian-based, but give a rough idea...
What to Expect at a Speed Dating Event
We will answer the following questions:
- What do you wear?
- Do speed dating events get canceled?
- What happens when I arrive at the speed dating event?
- What should I do while I wait for the speed dating to start?
- How many people go to speed dating events?
- How long is each date at speed dating?
- What is a speed dating score card and how do I fill it out?
- How long before I get my matches?
- What happens if I get no matches?
- What should I do when I receive my matches?
Statistics
25% of people have 0 matches; 50% have 1-2 matches; 25% have 3+ matches
Tips to Speed Fellowshipping for Men
- Give great eye contact and smile
- Write down name(s) of person you would later like to match with. The organizer will connect you if the interest is mutual
- Playful banter is great - even if its awkward
- Give one great compliment
Smart Speed Fellowshipping Strategies: Success Guaranteed for LADIES
- Smile! It instantly makes you look warmer and more attractive
- Consider leaving your phone out of sight
- Dress attractively but modestly
- Don't write someone off because you're not 'instantly' attracted. Attraction can grow and you never know!
- Look for something positive in each person
- Use as an opportunity to network!
- Graciously and warmly accept a compliment
- Refrain from rushing out immediately afterwards
- Don't make it the 'End of the World' if you don't get any matches
- Stay Positive, Be Open and Be Available... May God's Will be done (ok, that last one was mine ;)
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